Oamenii din viata noastra

Cum ne apropiem de alti oameni, femei sau barbati?
De ce 'alegem' pe unii si nu pe altii?

Cel putin in cazul meu, pe parcursul vietii mele, a fost vorba de cei cu care am intrat in contact direct: vecini, colegi de scoala, colegi de servici.
Prima iubire, a doua, a treia si a patra, toate au fost din cercul imediat de cunostinte.
Prietenii, cei mai buni, au fost vecini, colegi.

Dupa ce am terminat scoala sau am schimbat serviciul, relatiile ce parea indestructibile s-au racit.
Mai vorbim, ne mai trimitem cate o felicitare, ne sunam odata, de doua ori pe an si atat.

Si mai e ceva: aveam mai multi prieteni inainte, cand eram tanar, adolescent. Acum s-au imprastiat in lume, s-au casatorit, au familii... Iar eu le simt din ce in ce mai mult lipsa.

Prieteni, colegi, iubiri, vecini...

Seven Sins of the World

by Mahatma Gandhi

1. Wealth without work
2. Pleasure without conscience
3. Knowledge without character
4. Commerce without morality
5. Science without humanity
6. Worship without sacrifice
7. Politics without principle

Quotes

Emma Goldman - "If voting changed anything, they'd make it illegal."

"Have you no sense of decency sir, at long last? Have you left no sense of decency?"
Special Counsel for the Army Joseph N. Welch

Obiective importante

"Ce ati incerca sa faceti daca ati sti ca nu veti da gres?" - Anonim

Intrebati-va asta colegii, pe nepregatite, si veti avea cateva surprize...
Unii nu inteleg intrebarea, altii insira cate ceva fara importanta si doar foarte putini cad pe ganduri.

Ce este de fapt important in viata noastra?
Merita cu adevarat ceea ce consideram ca ne dorim cu ardoare?
Stiind ca vom reusi, schimba cu totul felul nostru de a gandi si actiona.

Incercati exercitiul.

Have fun!

Something new

The Real Issues Need to Be Managed….Not Resolved. Ready for this? Marriage researcher John Gottman of the University of Washington says that 64 percent of the fights married couples have are the SAME fights they are having five years later.

This is either really depressing, or really liberating. In other words, most of the things we fight about aren’t actually resolvable. It’s a process of managing differences in preferences, habits and personalities – differences that aren’t going to go away, so we might as well quit getting worked up about “how they are” and instead focus on working out ways to get around those issues.

Sheila Heen

Life Lesson

"Remember, the brick walls are there for a reason.
The brick walls are not there to keep us out,
they are there to give us a chance to show how badly we want something.

Because the brick walls are there to stop people who don't want it badly enough
They are there to stop the 'other' people."

Randy Pausch, a Carnegie Mellon University computer-science professor.
Please view or read the rest of this Lesson.

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